Do unto others as you'd have them do to you..... SHOCKER - this is NOT in the Bible - at least not as a stand alone statement. Rather it is part of a list that Jesus tells his disciples in Matthew 7 , which is a portion of the Sermon on the Mount which starts in Matthew 5. Matthew 7:12 says " So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets." This verse, taken by itself without the context of the previous verses, can cause trouble or confusion. Let me explain using an example. I like to use a thick towel. My husband prefers a thinner towel. When I give him a nice plush towel, I am doing to him what I want done for me, but it isn't what he wants. ( I discovered this after 40 years of marriage!) The point of Matthew 7 is not doing for others like we want done for us. The point is loving others the way we would like to be loved. To do this well, we need to know them well enough to do fo...